Wednesday, May 2, 2012

What Do I Call This...

     It has been very interesting listening to different people, men and women, throughout my life thus far.  Some people like to dismiss the importance of cheating as a man's right of passage.  It's perfectly fine for a man to disrespect and hurt a woman, that should have been the most IMPORTANT person in his life.  I disagree.  Then, to piggy back that mistake even further, take the cheater back.  Only to get cheated on again and again.  There's more...  Then, upon doing something drastic themselves, made to feel like the whole thing was their fault.  Even buy into that because, after all, men have a GOD given right to cheat.  A lesson learned in life is that usually when a person confesses to a crime/inappropriate action, they have usually done much worse.  For example, ask yourself...was large sums of money missing or, better yet, missing and unexplained during the time of said misdeeds?  Maybe it wasn't just cheating- bad enough- perhaps prostitutes were involved.  One of the hardest things is the fact that this is an event to which TRUST can never truly be rebuilt.  Taking out the trash or paying the bills or washing the car or buying gifts or going out to dinner cannot and will not make up for such a heinous and deliberate offenses.  Besides, those are the things that were being done when all of the cheating occurred in the first place.  Making love to a woman is not only a physical act, it is an emotional one too.  You are connecting with a person that believes in you and trusts you.  It is so personal.  It could literally mean life or death,  It could mean having a life long commitment - a child.  It should be enjoyed by both parties with each persons satisfaction achieved.  No wait, men have a GOD given right to get what they need and leave their partner hanging.  I'm an advocate of love and a very satisfying and loving relationship that produces great things and great memories.  Not just for the first few years because of not knowing what was really going on but, for lifetime.  Now back to HER...

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